The Hard Work of Unity
Wednesday · Anchor: Eph.4.3
From the sermon Marks of a Dangerous Church
Paul urges us to be 'eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.' Notice he doesn't say *create* unity — he says *maintain* it. Unity is a gift from the Spirit, but keeping it? That's on us.
Unity isn't uniformity. It doesn't mean we all think alike, vote alike, or prefer the same worship style. Unity means we're bound together by something greater than our preferences: the gospel. One Lord, one faith, one baptism. That's the glue.
But unity requires work. It requires humility — putting others first. It requires patience — bearing with people who annoy you. It requires love — choosing to stay when it's easier to leave. This is why Paul lists those virtues right before he talks about unity. You can't have one without the other.
Disunity is easy. It's our default. We divide over politics, theology, music, methods. The enemy loves it when we fracture. But a unified church? That's dangerous. It reflects the character of God. It makes the world take notice.
So when you're tempted to dig in your heels over something non-essential, ask yourself: Is this worth breaking fellowship? Is my preference more important than my brother's or sister's good? Unity doesn't mean you never disagree. It means you disagree without dividing.
Pause and consider
Is there someone in your church with whom you've had tension? What would it look like to pursue peace this week, even if it costs you something?
Prayer
Father, You have called us to be one, just as You and the Son are one. Forgive me when I've chosen my preferences over unity. Give me the humility to listen, the patience to bear with others, and the love to pursue peace.